It’s a common belief among parents: "I need to entertain my toddler so I can get things done." Maybe you’ve spent nap time rushing through tasks or relied on screens to buy a few minutes of peace. The truth? Your child wants to be involved in what you’re doing, and including them can actually make life easier.
Many parents feel torn between household chores and quality time with their child. The underlying belief is that these two things must be separate. But what if they didn’t have to be? What if your toddler could be part of daily life with you, rather than needing to be entertained away from you?
Young children are naturally curious about what we do. Instead of setting them up with a separate activity, try inviting them into yours. In the kitchen, give them a small spoon to "stir" or let them hand you ingredients. During laundry, they can match socks or press buttons. Even cleaning becomes a game when you hand them a cloth to "help."
When toddlers feel included, they’re more likely to cooperate and develop independence. This shift also relieves parental pressure—no more feeling like you have to entertain and multitask at the same time. Instead, daily routines become moments of connection and learning.
So next time you’re about to set your toddler up with a toy so you can get things done, try inviting them in instead. You might be surprised at how engaged, capable, and happy they are—right by your side.
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